Thursday, April 2, 2015

We Aren't Born Fools

"Have you seen a person FOOLING himself ?"

Weird question!!! I know, everybody would be like I'm making a FOOL of myself by stating this. But, there is an "unrevealed secret" behind this. Let me REVEAL it now.

For instance, each one of us can breathe, but we breathe for ourselves, because only then you can survive. Similarly, each and every moment of your life you are fooling yourself if you are not living for:

“what you are passionate about,
what satisfies your hunger,
what makes you feel happy each day,
what makes you feel on the top of the world each night,
 but also makes you HUMBLE
And ultimately makes your life.”

I’m sure nobody expected this answer, and if I ask why people fool themselves by not following their passion , they will say society, parents, scope all such reasons CONDITION them. They condition your DREAMS, but will you want that to happen. No, Right!!! But the irony is,

“Nobody conditions us, it is only we who condition ourselves,
Nobody fools us, it is only we who fool ourselves.”

We fool ourselves by doubting ourselves, we fool ourselves by acting on others options, we fool ourselves by not listening to our hearts, we fool ourselves by not trusting ourselves.

We are living in a world where our,
“DOUBTS are more expensive than our DREAMS”

I know it really hurts when your Dear ones don’t respect your passion, they don’t accept your passion or some cannot see you fulfilling your DREAMS. You feel shattered at such a point so what do you do:
Ø  Stop following your passion.
Ø  Do what they are happy about.
Ø  Start hating them.
Ø  Look down and keep repenting.

NO, Never, it is your life, it is your dream, it is the motive of your life, YOU have patented over it, nobody has the AUDACITY to fiddle with it, not even God for that matter. Let people do what they do because,

“If you Bother about them, they will keep on Bothering your Dream.”

People will come and go, they can either MAKE you or BREAK you, but again, it is your CHOICE, to LEARN something out of it or LOSE it. Remember one thing :

“Don’t change yourself for anyone, because when you do so, you may lose a DIAMOND struggling amongst the COAL”

Be the way you are, doesn’t mean don’t be flexible, be one but the one who has to accept  you , who deserves you will take you the way you are.

This APRIL FOOL'S DAY let's stop "FOOLING" ourselves and be the way you are, achieve what you want, and not what others expect from you.



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10 comments:

  1. hi aashu
    once again a nice blog topic wid a different point of view...
    yes u r rite that no one is born fool.. bt as we grow up people start making us fool wid the restrictions of society rules. like if its a girl than she is not allowed to study much n if its a boy than he doesn't get chance to explore his thought in front of the world....
    there r many boys n girls in the society who r not getting chance to explore there thinking n talent b'coz of narrow minded thinking of society,.. even parents r ready to support them bt b'coz of "wt society will say??" they do not support there dreams.. n if parents see others children r getting growth in any field than they want there children to become like them... even parents sometime don't want there children to make a different identity or name in the society... n b'coz of such thinking many talents r been lost in this world...
    it better to live solo n free instead of living in restricted society...
    hope aashu wtever i m saying u n other viewer understand..
    n keep posting such interesting blog where everyone can read n change there point of view n share everyone's thought.....

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    1. Sure!! But as u said parents think about what Society will say then i would still not blame the society because everybody is born free everybody has their own opinions so it is the job of d parent and d person to decide what to accept and deny. I'll quote something here:
      "Life is not so easy, it can give you pains, it can give you smiles, but it is your job to decide what to accept and what to deny."

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  2. It is indeed a thoughtful post. However, I do think that it could have been expressed more eloquently. Perhaps an improvement in punctuation would help. Continue writing.
    -Sara

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    1. Correct. Thanks for the review!!! Will definately improve on your points

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  4. Hey! You are nominated for the Liebster Award, a bloggers award!
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  5. Hey! You are nominated for the Liebster Award, a bloggers award!
    Do check this out: http://www.fabulus1710.blogspot.in/2015/04/my-first-blogger-award.html
    Thanks!
    Mithila @fabulus1710

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  6. Yo! Aishwarya. Superb yaar! True said!!!! Keep it up

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  7. Yo! Aishwarya. Superb yaar! True said!!!! Keep it up

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