Thursday, April 16, 2015

FAILURE- IS IT THAT DIFFICULT ?



"Behind every Successful Person,
There are a number of Unsuccessful Years."

Success can only be tasted by those who can bear failure. It can only be rejoiced by those who have not feared failing. It's like: when you succeed there will be people who will rejoice with you but also there are going to be people who will be envious of you. This is life. 

At any point a taunt also from an envious person can pinch you, because it is only your heart who knows how much of hardwork and dedication it took to stand where you are. But, when you succeed, the fruits of success seem to be so sweet such that they suck all the bitterness coming from such people and makes it sound even more sweeter.

Another aspect is: Because of these taunts popping in when you failed,  it got your world down. But, at the same time, 
It gave you the POWER to get up,
 It gave you the COURAGE to walk, 
It made you work  HARD so that you are able to leave a trail. 
Most importantly,

"Life is not about SUCCESS or FAILURE,
It is about what you have LOST from your SUCCESS,
And what you have GAINED from your FAILURE."

These are two contradictory statements which can create tremendous arguments, but, the logic behind it is very simple,
"NO PAIN, NO GAIN."

On one hand,
If you have got SUCCESS, you have definately given away some sort of comfort or you have lost something you never wished to part with.

On the other hand,
If you have failed, that means you have attempted something NEW, so if you fail, i.e., lose then you will definately get something in return, because that is the rule of UNIVERSE. If it takes something, it will give you a hundred things in return. Just as we say, if GOD shuts one door, he opens another 1000........ doors for you. But, the only test that he takes everytime is of your DETERMINATION. He will never plan something which will harm us, he will always guide you to listen to what your HEART says.

We din't learn to WALK without FALLING,
We din't learn to TALK without FUMBLING,
We cannot DIE without being BORN,
Then,
How can you SUCCEED without FAILING ???



Everybody can advise you to play it safe, but safe play can never teach you the "REAL LESSONS" of life. 
Success doesn't come to those who play it safe, it comes to those who take the RISK. 
It doesn't come to those who are smart, it comes to those who have the GUTS to shine out. 
It doesn't comes to those who fall and cry, it comes to those who can LOOK up to GET up.

It is your UNSTOPPABLE desire to reach your dream is what will make you reach.
It is the will to not give up,
 It is the will to move on,
 It is the will to fall but not stop,

 Only then, 
"You are a Master of your DREAMS, 
And Your DREAMS are not your Master."


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25 comments:

  1. Yes you're right Aishwarya Jain!👍🏻

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  2. My pleasure!!! Dont worry I'm just a call away

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  3. I like the new look of your blog's web version.. It's well structured and that's what makes it easier for a viewer to read it!
    As usual, the content is mind-blowing!

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  4. hi aashu..
    once again a gud topic of ur blog....
    wt do i say this time... the word failure it the best ever word in the eng. dictionary... n in practical life failure is the most easy n hard way to achive any goal....
    easy way means if the person don't try any new thing n give up without trying the new task thats the simple way of failure..
    hard way means the person knows that he is not going to complete the task n though he try to attempt the task thats the hard way of failure..
    its not compoulsary that one should get success everytime he attempt the new thing... the best example this is an ant... ant is the small creature but has lot of courage.. she attempts many time to claim a tree n she falls many time while doing this task bt she keep in trying n trying n get succeed in the claiming tree.. another example is the little baby sparrow who tries to fly in the early stage n falls many time while doing this bt atlast learn to fly...
    ashu really want to thanks u for writting such blog... which r so meaningful n full of positive thinking......



    1 ques. that wt a person should do if he doesn't get success in any task though he have tried for 1000 times?????

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    1. Introspect!!!! That person is probably doing something which makes him feel sad each day, which doesn't satisfy your hunger of work and so that person is failing, primarily the reason being he is not working from his heart!!!!

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    3. It is because that person is gettin restricted by d common phrase of "LOG KYA KAHENGE"

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  5. I feel motivated by ur words!! Great work aashu👍

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  6. wt the hell "log kya kahege"
    the task is attempted for our happiness n if we succeed than also people will abuse n if we fail than also people will abuse.. in both d way the loss is of the person who will attempt the thing/task... the person doesn't fail because he don't have ability..... he loss sometime due to the fear of wt people will say....is this wat anyone try some new thing//... if kishor kumar would have thought some think like this than he would not have become such grt singer, if sachic would have thought like this than he would not have become such grt cricketer.... bt all this words r easy to say bt in practical life the fact is " log kya kahege"....

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    1. Correct!!!
      This really happens, but at that point you have to enroll yourself and your family that your passion is more important than the opinion of people

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  7. than y the hell "log kya kahege??" comes in the mind everytime?????

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    1. That phrase is so fed into your system that it just doesn't get out until and unless your craving to achieve it is more powerful than what people say

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  8. bt i suggest everyone should once face failure in life..
    b'coz thats the time when we can know how strong we r n wt mistakes me make while doing anything new..
    n we can know that how many people support us n how many abuse us during that period......so if anyone fails than dont get depressed take it as a lesson n work hard for next time....

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    1. I agree that failure defines the true colour of society!!
      But, inviting failure will not get you success. It is only your attitude that will support you reach your goals. It isnt necessary u have to face a failure

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  9. Hi aashu
    I didn't mean that we should invite failure to kniw the person or the society.... bt nothing in dis world is predictable. Everything happends itself while we do anything... bt its d time hw we react to that circumstances ....

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  10. Its you who creates what to do in life!!

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  11. Yes it is good. Sorry for reading it late. Keep it up. And recommend people to do sp2😜

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