FAILURE- IS IT THAT DIFFICULT ?

"Behind every Successful Person,

There are a number of Unsuccessful Years."

Success can only be tasted by those who can bear failure. It can only be rejoiced by those who have not feared failing. It's like: when you succeed there will be people who will rejoice with you but also there are going to be people who will be envious of you. This is life. 

At any point a taunt also from an envious person can pinch you, because it is only your heart who knows how much of hardwork and dedication it took to stand where you are. But, when you succeed, the fruits of success seem to be so sweet such that they suck all the bitterness coming from such people and makes it sound even more sweeter.

Another aspect is: Because of these taunts popping in when you failed,  it got your world down. But, at the same time, 

It gave you the POWER to get up,

 It gave you the COURAGE to walk, 

It made you work  HARD so that you are able to leave a trail. 

Most importantly,

"Life is not about SUCCESS or FAILURE,

It is about what you have LOST from your SUCCESS,

And what you have GAINED from your FAILURE."

These are two contradictory statements which can create tremendous arguments, but, the logic behind it is very simple,

"NO PAIN, NO GAIN."

On one hand,

If you have got SUCCESS, you have definately given away some sort of comfort or you have lost something you never wished to part with.

On the other hand,

If you have failed, that means you have attempted something NEW, so if you fail, i.e., lose then you will definately get something in return, because that is the rule of UNIVERSE. If it takes something, it will give you a hundred things in return. Just as we say, if GOD shuts one door, he opens another 1000........ doors for you. But, the only test that he takes everytime is of your DETERMINATION. He will never plan something which will harm us, he will always guide you to listen to what your HEART says.

We din't learn to WALK without FALLING,

We din't learn to TALK without FUMBLING,

We cannot DIE without being BORN,

Then,

How can you SUCCEED without FAILING ???

Everybody can advise you to play it safe, but safe play can never teach you the "REAL LESSONS" of life. 

Success doesn't come to those who play it safe, it comes to those who take the RISK. 

It doesn't come to those who are smart, it comes to those who have the GUTS to shine out. 

It doesn't comes to those who fall and cry, it comes to those who can LOOK up to GET up.

It is your UNSTOPPABLE desire to reach your dream is what will make you reach.

It is the will to not give up,

 It is the will to move on,

 It is the will to fall but not stop,

 Only then, 

"You are a Master of your DREAMS, 

And Your DREAMS are not your Master."

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We Aren't Born Fools

"Have you seen a person FOOLING himself ?"

Weird question!!! I know, everybody would be like I'm making a FOOL of myself by stating this. But, there is an "unrevealed secret" behind this. Let me REVEAL it now.

For instance, each one of us can breathe, but we breathe for ourselves, because only then you can survive. Similarly, each and every moment of your life you are fooling yourself if you are not living for:

“what you are passionate about,

what satisfies your hunger,

what makes you feel happy each day,

what makes you feel on the top of the world each night,

 but also makes you HUMBLE

And ultimately makes your life.”

I’m sure nobody expected this answer, and if I ask why people fool themselves by not following their passion , they will say society, parents, scope all such reasons CONDITION them. They condition your DREAMS, but will you want that to happen. No, Right!!! But the irony is,

“Nobody conditions us, it is only we who condition ourselves,

Nobody fools us, it is only we who fool ourselves.”

We fool ourselves by doubting ourselves, we fool ourselves by acting on others options, we fool ourselves by not listening to our hearts, we fool ourselves by not trusting ourselves.

We are living in a world where our,

“DOUBTS are more expensive than our DREAMS”

I know it really hurts when your Dear ones don’t respect your passion, they don’t accept your passion or some cannot see you fulfilling your DREAMS. You feel shattered at such a point so what do you do:

Ø  Stop following your passion.

Ø  Do what they are happy about.

Ø  Start hating them.

Ø  Look down and keep repenting.

NO, Never, it is your life, it is your dream, it is the motive of your life, YOU have patented over it, nobody has the AUDACITY to fiddle with it, not even God for that matter. Let people do what they do because,

“If you Bother about them, they will keep on Bothering your Dream.”

People will come and go, they can either MAKE you or BREAK you, but again, it is your CHOICE, to LEARN something out of it or LOSE it. Remember one thing :

“Don’t change yourself for anyone, because when you do so, you may lose a DIAMOND struggling amongst the COAL”

Be the way you are, doesn’t mean don’t be flexible, be one but the one who has to accept  you , who deserves you will take you the way you are.

This APRIL FOOL'S DAY let's stop "FOOLING" ourselves and be the way you are, achieve what you want, and not what others expect from you.

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