Ouch! Did That Hurt?

The year is about to end and the same old story is ABOUT to repeat! But everyone is busy making their New Year Eve's Plans so am I but oops we just missed that before we waive off lets complete some stuff before we begin a new beginning!

 Think what am I thinking on today for a while before you scroll down.......

Maybe just give it a guess! Sometimes random shots just seem to work! 

Oh god! We will think that our guess may go wrong,  we may make a "mistake"! 

Yes, today's topic is on MISTAKES.

No one wants to talk about it, because every moment when we relate with the mistakes that we made seems to fill our passing moments with REGRET. It is so easy to kill our good moods and beautiful souls by punishing ourselves for some mere things called MISTAKES.

Let's look at the other side of the coin too. We all do make mistakes, from a small toddler to a good old uncle as well. But the only difference between the two extremes is that one is happy to give another shot with the same excitement and enthusiasm while the other will think awhile before his next shot and that's all that made the difference.

 The first had the space to do something while the latter lost that space in thinking or rather REGRETTING! That's the reason probably its easy to develop qualities and instill values into a toddler than in any other form of human life.

We all have certain GOALS set, but one mistake is enough to invite a failure or to meet success on the path, point is how we react to our mistakes. Majority of us will sit and regret and that's what kills that deep passion down, you may take that one small reason to cease your passion and just forget the reason why you started! Take a pause that moment,

  

  Find your calling,

Find Your Heart,

  Find Your Breath,

Because when you breathe you don't realise you are breathing but still you are alive, similarly when you are breathing your passion you won't realise your mistakes!

And,

It's all OK to make mistakes, as far as,

You feel the need to move,

You feel the need to improve,

You feel the need to change,

You feel the need to be yourself.

We are humans after all, so sometimes try this method called FORGIVING or rather LET GO because it seems to work every freaking time. We are a rare species because for us FORGIVING others is more easier than our ownself. 

We all have a bucket list which we wish to fulfill but for that the first step would be to forgive ourselves for all the mistakes we have committed with ourselves just like our parents forgive us for every mistake that we do because they love us unconditionally.

So, this NEW YEAR'S EVE

Love Yourself,

Pamper Yourself,

Forgive Yourself,

Complete Yourself,

Be Yourself.

Only then, the GOODBYE is going to be worth the year spent and you will have a CHECKED BUCKETLIST!

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Did You Know That?

The year almost flew away and no one realized. Nor did I do! But it's ok that's pretty usual with all of us. Every year flies away like this and we just don't seem to break our sleep,

But something just struck me and my sleep was broken. It all started over an awkward meet which broke that sleep. A simple discussion on dreams is all what it took to break those comfort levels.
There was no clue about how it would turn out to be.

But who knew what was in package, who knew one lost argument could make me meet someone,
So SPECIAL,
So PURE,
So PRECIOUS,
So INTEGRAL

. There was nothing better except
a feeling of ONENESS with OWNSELF,
a feeling of REJUVENATION,
a feeling of UNITY,
a feeling of KNOWING your TRUESELF.

It was a striking persona which made me CONVINCE myself that,

there can be someone who can make me BELIEVE in myself,

there can be someone who can BREAK my LIMITS,

who can be just the SAME, but still be very DIFFERENT.

I'm quite sure soulmate is one answer which would have popped up, but oops................

It is no one else except your real BEING.

Yes, truth is hard to digest, but can't be denied. It's only YOU who can complete yourself

          

          Because.......

No BODY except yours can DEFINE you,

No MIND except yours can give MEANING to you,

No HEART except yours can LOVE you,

No SOUL except yours can HEAL you.

Yes, This time break your sleep,break that lie

Of Being so Busy,

Of Being so Lost,

, Of Being so Confused,

Of Being so Noisy......

This time, find TIME to know yourself!

Because our TRUE HAPPINESS lies in BEING our TRUE SELVES.

It's not a hectic process but rather a soothing one. It will strike in when you just feel things are worst, you find no hope but Yes, a Life Boat which is not visible but deep inside is waiting for you to EXPLORE yourself and REACH it.

This DIWALI break take a break from your ROUTINE and find your TRUE BEING, which is waiting inside to pop out, let it just exist and accept it the way it is, because that feeling cannot be compared to anything else!

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Are You INVINCIBLE ?

The happening time of the year is back again.

 College Admissions have started.

 Everyone is running a race to hold on to a good and REPUTED college.

 One can make out the different Emotions on the face of the teenager and their parents. You can see Fear, Anger, Anxiety which all are by-products of...... COMPETITION

We all belong to the 21st century, where dealing with COMPETITION is like a daily chore.Everywhere you move your eyes you will notice that people are moving ahead of time. They board public vehicles as if the other person will throw him out.

For Instance,

When you are walking and someone overtakes you unconsciously the first thing you do is start observing that person. 

This is what happens with us in the real world when we are moving and suddenly someone rises a step higher to us then we start utilising our energies on how to pull the competitor down rather than raising our standards.

Like what have we moulded ourselves into, we have forgotten the basic idea that we have to compete with ourselves, but we are going around competing with the world.

We are individuals blessed with UNIQUENESS.This world has a population of 7.2 Billion UNIQUE People.Then how can we compete with those who are totally different from us.

Competition is with those who are of the same category!

That is why you need to compete with yourself every moment. Every second of your life is devoted to polish the UNIQUENESS which you have been born with and is not to be use to compete with Others.

And,

Once you have begun the process of competing with your ownself,

Then you are INVINCIBLE who will emerge as a WINNER everyday.

 Because you no longer compete with the outside world, but with the thrill going on within your SOUL!

Competition is going to be there at every step of your life,

But, its Your Choice,

To SHAPE UP or SHIP OUT,

TO TRIUMPH over the WORLD or YOURSELF!

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Think And Progress

It has been almost half a year that I haven't picked up  my pen to express my heart  but only to write some things which may never make sense to me half the time. Yes I'm talking about our curriculum works. These 12th boards have relieved me  and now that I can find peace in my inner breaths I have put something down.

 So I thought why not write about one such thing that is the most difficult and the most easiest job to do. Confused! It is simple to make a guess because shrewd guess seems to work a lot these days

Ok it's like this;
Thinking is the most toughest thing to do, 
while Overthinking is the most easiest thing to do.

Just as my usual theme, I always pitch into these lines 

 You think you make a dream, 

You overthink and you may kill one. 

Thinking in human words is making an opinion about something which serves as a yardstick in making decisions. It's like building up your Belief System.

Overthinking is just analyzing the same thought again and again or dig on it rather more deeper than ever just to bring some interpretation out of it which may not even exist.

ThInking raises your IQ bars,

While

Overthinking lowers your EQ bars

We all believe that a greater IQ means a better life, but we all forget that IQ will improve only when you have raised your EQ LEVELS.

For instance, you pick a career you work for it and to succeed you require both brains and motivation, but when will your brain work, when you are motivated enough to use it.

It's not about talking on levels we don't understand, it's  about understanding your thought processes not analysing. We have become so engrossed and serious about our routines that we end up mixing things. We are performing jobs at offices that require analysis while, we are performing a job at home which requires understanding but we seem to mix them up. 

We have started analysing our family instead of understanding them.

 We have to think about our family, our passion,etc. We need not overthink them.

 We have to understand life not analyse it.

 We are humans not analysts.

 We are blessed with powers to think, to believe, to live.

 We form the power of this universe

 We can't waste our lives just overthinking.

 We have to learn to be sincere not serious.

We all have some goal to accomplish, many of us are working towards it, while many are not even aware of what it is. The ones who are working  are thinking of their next step, while the ones unaware are overthinking on what is the WHY of their life. That is the reason they are still unaware because the goal of life is spoken out by the heart which can be heard;

 When there is a state of NOTHINGNESS,

 It's calm around your head and then it will just strike in.

We need to prepare for the moment to hear that part carefully so we don't miss out on it. We will realize it at the moment when you least expect it to come. Till then just calmly think of various options don't overthink on them. It is possible but a little difficult because it is in our roots. Even I'm in the process I haven't overcome it completely. The point is to start because

It may not be a great start, but you need to start to be great.

These are some opinions of my friends on this topic who helped me finish this post

               ----Maitri  (Aspiring Creative Head, Silent Thinker)

-----Leepi (Aspiring Trouble shooter)

            ----Vishal (Aspiring Creative Head)  

   -------Samarth (Aspiring Thinker)

                            

-----Mohit Jain(Aspiring Thinker)

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IT DOES HAPPEN

Its been quite long since I've deeply thought and put them on paper but now finally I'm doing it. Before I begin, I would like to thank all my viewers to be so supportive and I  apologize to make you all wait for so long.

So let's begin.

We all know that the festive flare for which we Indians are known for has begun. So today's topic goes along with it. India is known for its Festivals and the Grand Celebrations that they bring along. And today we are going to write about CELEBRATION!

What I believe is, that celebration is naturally inbuilt within us but we are always waiting for the right time!

 But oops! we forgot that "Right Time" has to be CREATED,

 it does not arrive at your doorstep! 

And I really doubt there would hardly be anybody in this world who doesn't wish to celebrate. But then why only occasions to celebrate?

Is it that the,

Sun only rises on occasions,

OR

The beautiful view of the sunset can only be enriched on occasions?

NO, Right. They happen regularly. Similarly, happiness has to be experienced regularly. It doesn't have to be some big shot event or an OCCASION to enrich the soul with happy colors.

It can be as simple as bringing a smile on someone's face 

or

 Opening your eyes to the grateful world you are gifted with.

 It can be just waking up with the belief of it,

 or

 Going to a sound sleep with the hope of it. 

It can be just anything, but definitely it is something.

Find that belief,

 Find that hope, 

Find that something.

And when you find that something, nurture it with hope, enrich it with belief and then you'll find that you no longer need an "occasion" to CELEBRATE. Automatically, life will bow down to you and leave infinite reasons to celebrate. But, what you have to do is just BELIEVE and cling on to it.

A belief can be as simple as BEING YOURSELF,
 Doing what you want to do, 
Living a life of your own terms, 
Living a life of your own DREAMS,

 And, now that you have programmed your belief system,

You will see that life will give you more reasons to celebrate than to crib!

Since you've read this, I would request all my viewers, to share what gives them happiness by commenting on the post!

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We Are Born Free

It has been quite a long time since I have posted something new. But, I was waiting for the right time to proceed. And,here it is. The day on which INDIA embarked on a new journey, a FREE journey towards Prosperity. As India is approaching towards the 69th Year of  its Independence here is a post on FREEDOM or INDEPENDENCE.

"FREEDOM" what a pleasant word. The moment you hear the only thing that strikes is, "FREE"

 Free to do what you want,

 Free to  do what you wish,
Free to be what you are.

 It is just that very thing which revolves around getting free. 

We all love FREEDOM, none of us want to be caged like an animal or a bird, we all want to fly high spreading our wings, being happy, by being what you are and not what others want you to be and just be ourselves.

 But, why does it happen that when we think of FREEDOM, we think of Constraints too? 

The simple saying, "With Great Power, comes Great Responsibility".

Simply means that Freedom is Power,

It is the Power to Prosper,

It is the Power to Believe In Yourself,

It is the Power to Trust Yourself, when nobody trusts you,

It is the Power to Serve Your Purpose.

We all know that Prosperity will not come without Hard-Work , nor will it come when you trust the outside world and ignore the inner soul, but still we expect it without serving what it deserves. So, how will Freedom come when You don't accept Responsibility. It doesn't mean blaming yourself for other's mistakes, it is about blaming oneself for own mistakes, forgiving yourself and moving ahead.

It is about accepting yourself the way you are and being responsible for your own actions. It is about taking the responsibility to follow your DREAMS, and holding yourself responsible for whatever it is about yourself. 

"It is not the SMARTEST who will take off,

 but the one who has the GUTS to take the world off."

Freedom comes when RESPONSIBILITY is taken but it truly bears fruits only when, 

YOU set yourself free,

When you decide to be free, 

When you decide to follow only what your heart beats for,

When you decide that Your DREAMS are more expensive than your DOUBTS,

When you decide that YOU are the one who will either MAKE or BREAK yourself. 

It is only and only your choice that gives you freedom. India got freedom when each and every INDIAN longed to be free and were ready for anything that came across and so today Indians are breathing that independent oxygen. It is our ancestors who got Freedom for themselves the LEADERS only initiated it.  Similarly,

"Freedom will Come when You want it, it will come when you set yourself free."

The BASSLINE is,

"About having those GUTS, 
It is about HAVING the ability to Risk anything and everything, 
It is about not having the fear of losing anything."

This INDEPENDENCE DAY let's just stop fooling ourselves by saying we have full FREEDOM, lets check and cleanse our systems and set our inner selves free so that we are no longer are bounded by chains created by ourselves or those created by the society.

       JAI HIND!!!!!

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